Ignoring your partner’s needs creates emotional and physical disconnect.
Many women need more time to become physically and mentally aroused.
Overconsumption can lead to unrealistic expectations and reduce real-life satisfaction.
Bad breath, body odor, or untrimmed nails can be huge turn-offs.
Lack of communication about likes, dislikes, or boundaries can cause confusion or discomfort.
Being too fast or aggressive without consent can make sex feel unpleasant or even painful.
What to do instead
Communicate, ask what your partner likes, and be attentive during intimacy.
Prioritize foreplay — kissing, touching, and verbal intimacy are key.
Moderate your consumption and focus on real intimacy with your partner.
Shower regularly, groom yourself, and stay fresh and clean.
Talk openly and respectfully about sex, before and after.
Go slow, read your partner’s cues, and always prioritize consent and comfort.